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Who doesn't want to have a great relationship? Who doesn't want to feel completely understood and taken care of in her relationship? Almost every woman out there chases... Why do Men Pull away and how to deal with it

Security. Love. Affection. A sense of belongingness. Companionship etc. But why do some women always encounter disappointments after disappointments? And all they ever get is pain, frustration and confusion? Why do some women always struggle to connect with their man?

It could be the man's fault and it could be your fault too. Both the scenarios are equally possible. But now the big question is - Why do men withdraw from relationships? What drives them to get distant? What exactly goes on in their head which makes them use this move? Let me explain everything to you in some good detail...

Men withdraw when they feel completely trapped...

Every woman has certain needs and expectations in her relationship. Every woman wants her needs to be fulfilled as fast as possible.Click here why do men withdraw

And this is where the big mistake happens. When you are in the process of getting your own personal needs met you might sometimes completely ignore his needs. And this is where the man starts to feel trapped.

And once he starts to feel trapped his very first action would be to get distant and feel a sense of freedom once again. Because you are the source which is making him feel trapped.

Here are some good examples of how a woman can make a man feel trapped -

He might feel trapped when you constantly question him on the current state of the relationship and always suggest or tell him how things should be. He might feel trapped when you keep bringing up past arguments and hold it all against him. He might feel trapped when your demands are just too high for him to meet them. He might feel trapped when you keep trying to change him in one way or the other to match your preferences. Men withdraw when they feel misunderstood...

Men usually get distant when they feel that there is absolutely no hope and you might never understand their situation or point of view. Everyone wants to be understood in their relationship. Everyone wants some level of validation from their partner. As long as they get it they will feel fine the relationship will remain healthy but the moment they don't get it everything starts to crumble. Men feel misunderstood when...

You never bother to listen to his side of the story and conclude that he is always wrong. When you hold his past mistakes against him and keep bringing them up. When you become really upset just because he isn't giving you the kind of response you expected. When you just don't appreciate him in any way. Some women are completely clueless and still keep making some or all of the above mistakes. The only way to have a healthy relationship is to first remain patient and then try to see the situation from your partner's point of view.